Getting Mad Over the Internet

Now, more and more people are on the Internet using a social network. With people being on the these social network, people are now fighting and getting upset over simple things on the Internet. It can be over anything. It can be something as this:

No matter what it is. The dumbest, most self center person automatically thinks it's about them so they are "compelled" to comment. 

That is when the OP (original poster) tries to defend their status because of the dumb person. 

But unfortunately, that is when the war starts. 

When I see this, I want to to say something like this:

Or this: 

But normally those start a fight. Not to mention figure out what they are talking about tends to kill brain cells. Best thing to do is block the person.....

 Or even better, since there is a lot of unnecessary drama on the social networks, to deactivate the account. But even doing that can be a challenge. 

But even then, it won't work...

Road Trip!

When you want to vacation, you check several options and pick which option is best to travel for you and your budget. By far, driving tends to be much cheaper than catching a plane (or train or bus) and renting a car to use.  The only catch is that you may go crazy on your drive down there.

First off, as a woman, you want to make sure you grab everything in the world that you think you may need to bring with you.

Once of course everything is in the car, you feel a lot of excitement on your journey ahead. You have so much joy and thrill knowing that soon you will be a new place. You think the time will fly by...no matter how long the journey.

Of course after a while you get restless because you are in the same spot in the car, but you try to maintain that same thrill you had in the beginning. You use other alternatives to take your mind off of long journey ahead.

But as always on long drives, you reach a breaking point. After being in the car for a long period of time and a million corn fields you see on the way by, the realization hits that this journey that you once thought will be quick and simple has now become a journey that never ends. Before you reach breaking point, you try to grab hold a little longer to the last shred of hope.....

And then the realization hits.....

Once it hits you, your sanity is officially out the window. 

After a while of melting down with the realization, you come to acceptance that no matter what, you have to drive and your feelings about the trip have officially died. 

And because of all of this that happens in the car is the reason why you are worn out and ready to rest once you get there. After going through a major emotional roller coaster and a mental breakdown, you will have just enough energy to crash and sleep. 

Of course you will forget about the whole ordeal after resting and having fun on vacation....of course... when you repeat the same cycle going back home. 

The Difference Between an Honest Opinion and Being Mean

I feel like I have to make this blog only for the simple fact that it is a very common problem with society today. A lot of people take a honest opinion and label it mean. For some reason, in some people's minds, if you don't agree with them 100%, you must be mean. It can be as simple as an outfit they are wearing to something crazy like trying to climb the Eiffel tower. It tends to start off with a bragging:

Case in point here. She is talking about how "awesome" her obviously ugly hat and bragging about it. Normally, a person would want give a warning to their friend or relative to prevent embarrassment in the future. 

I seriously believe if they hear an once of disagreement, a rage button pops on their head because you actually had gave thought to their question and not give an automatic yes to their question. In that case rage mode is on. 

In some ways, if you know that the person will go in a range, sometimes it's better to laugh about it.

But being mean comes with consequences......

Sadly, the best thing you can ever do is to bite your tongue and agree. Even though it's a lie, it is most of the time the safest bet. 

Stressed out Brides vs. Bridezillas

As a soon to be bride, planning a wedding can be tough. It can be stressful and make you go crazy. Most brides, get upset and start to get angry and outsiders normally uses the term, "Bridezilla". That is an incorrect term. It may seem as if we are getting mad over small things, but really, it was a bunch of people causing a lot of stress and just like shaking up a soda and then open up, we explode. Here are some instances of how the stressed out bride gets "shaken".

Yes, you go and get a hall and all what you wish cost as much as your first born child and refuses to budge in your requests and eventually you give in to the most tolerable place and deal with it. If you hire a person to decorate your wedding, they want to pick the tackiest thing and say it's "fashion". No, it's not. Please stop while  you are ahead. Bridesmaids will never agree to do stuff that the same time. Most people always have that one (or two or all) who has a problem. Thankfully, for me, I didn't have too many problems with my girls and even the ones I had to replace, they were for situations beyond our control. Here are some more leading to the breaking point:

Once you tell your mother you are getting married, they tend to take over. They will make your guest list, pick the food, decor and everything. You can absolutely hate it, but it doesn't matter because your mom likes it and "you have to make mom happy." Also, there are some things a groom will help with for the wedding. The only thing is most won't help with every single decision. Their focus: honeymoon!! In their minds, wedding is for you and honeymoon is for them and your respond will be "Whatever you like." That is the only option you get most of the time. Yes, you will want to scream and put hair out. But by the time you get to that point, you are now labeled a bridezilla.

Bridezillas however, will warn you from the get go they will cut you if you dare try to tell them what to do. It's either their way or feel their mighty wrath:

If you are dealing with a bridezilla, my best suggestion is run and hide because there will be no stopping her rampage until the day is over with. In the end, it will be rewarding and you will have a fun with friends and family, but if you don't want the hassle, my suggestion is to either go to the courthouse or do a destination wedding with you, your future spouse and two good buds who wouldn't mind having a nice vacation (only so you can have your witnesses). 

But it worked yesterday......

"But it worked yesterday." That sentence I despise the most? Why? People are compelled to believe that nothing in life, ever breaks down. It's not possible in their minds. I wish I can find unbreakable stuff because I am spending a lot of money on things that eventually break down. For example, if I try to fix a computer issue for someone because they have been running various programs on the computer and not knowing how it works and lo and behold:

 This is what we get. A clueless person who has no clue that they have broken their own computer. You spend a very long time trying to rack your brain while they are sitting there being clueless of what is going on. When you get to the point where the computer is at the point of no return:

This is a very good case. They are running maybe a computer that came out when their kid was born and now their kid is graduating college, had downloaded 2,000 viruses which ultimately killed the computer. Of course, no one keeps the CDs anymore, if the computer came with it. Some of the computer companies decided to put it on the same hard drive as if your hard drive will never die to save $10 on a CD. You explain the issue and tell them they need a computer. In disbelief, they then go and say, 

I am not sure what compels people to say this. It's like they tell you this as if it's a validation of it not being broken. If that was the case, then I should have a full bank account since I got paid yesterday, my car should never stop working since it drove just fine yesterday, meat being left outside in the boiling sun near bugs should be great for consumption since it was perfectly fine being purchased on the day prior. When I hear these words, "It worked yesterday", a sudden rage come inside of me I feel that makes me want to go crazy. I tried to hold it in. I try REALLY hard not to let it go..... 

On the inside, I have snapped into a mad rage like never before.....

If only I could. Instead, I bang my head on the desk multiple times and wonder why. 

This is my mini rant of things that annoy me for today. Until next time.